Blissful muslim home

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IS POLYGAMY REALLY THE SOLUTION
After some studies on problems in some marital homes, I found out that though other issues are causing those problems but the real root of the problems is Lack of communication.
Most Husbands start to think of adding another wife when they find out that there is a change in their wife's  behaviour.
when you married her in the begining she was romantic,after your first child she begins to change due to her own reasons.After second and third children you begin to see your wife as a monster and you always want to run away from the house.
Marriage is a sacred and awestruck Union which Allah has blessed us with  therefore we should also not forget that its a form of test to us from Allah.
She is your wife you are her husband.Both of you need to Talk ! pour your feelings out to him or her ,rectify the faults between you two,Resolve the cases .If really you claim you loved her for the sake of Allah before you married her then Replenish your heart with that love.She is a mother and sometimes problems of her children and how to manage other things makes her mind crazy sometimes.
If you add another wife leaving your wife in that state then she is going to be in that trauma forever therefore making women Hate polygamy forever.
Men should not be cowards by putting their homes into a  peaceful state.It is your duty to make sure All is well in your Home��
You should go in for another wife not because your wife has become a problem but because You have been able to put your home into Peace and you are completely sure of bringing another creature of Allah to your home to show her mercy.
What is the possibility that if you get problems with the second wife you would not go in for a third wife? and you will also have problems with your wives because you do not bear the quality of our belovered Rasulullah (SAW) as a peace maker.Your children are also going to grow up hating each other because of the impression of what goes on in the house.

Lets make our marriages fruitful eventhough its hard.lets clear the mindset that marriage is full of Bliss...that one i can clearly state that its not possible�� Face the problems together...talk to each other....love yourselves and the most important thing is Pray for your Marriage and In Shaa Allah things will not fall Apart Bi izni 'llah☝
   Assalam Alaykum warahmatullahi wabarakatu
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