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The prophet (s.a.w) told us "if you want to increase your 'rizq' in this life then do not break family ties.... Have you ever sat down to contemplate as to why he said this, what didn't his family members do to him , The first person to rain insults on the prophet to the extend of cursing him when Islam was introduced was his family member (Abhi lahab). Let's look at Annabi lut, alayhi salam. It was his wife who betrayed him and not his friends nor his followers but the greatest asset of his family did him bad Annabi Nuh wasn't an exception ,his own son refused to believe in what he preached to the extend he was consumed by the wrath of Allah. Annabi Yusuf was not spared of this family caucus. His own brothers did all in their might to bring him down . These are the messengers of Allah subhaanahu wata aaala , and they were attacked mostly by their greatest asset (family). Yet they never gave up praying for them they never went a day without praying for the

IS POLYGAMY REALLY THE SOLUTION After some studies on problems in some marital homes, I found out that though other issues are causing those problems but the real root of the problems is Lack of communication. Most Husbands start to think of adding another wife when they find out that there is a change in their wife's  behaviour. when you married her in the begining she was romantic,after your first child she begins to change due to her own reasons.After second and third children you begin to see your wife as a monster and you always want to run away from the house. Marriage is a sacred and awestruck Union which Allah has blessed us with  therefore we should also not forget that its a form of test to us from Allah. She is your wife you are her husband.Both of you need to Talk ! pour your feelings out to him or her ,rectify the faults between you two,Resolve the cases .If really you claim you loved her for the sake of Allah before you married her then Replenish your heart with

if you unleash two Hungary wolves in a flock of sheep,they would pose a lesser danger compared to the catastrophic consequences craving for wealth and fame would have on the faith and imaan of an individual. there are two types of hunger .hunger for food and hunger for power.the former far better than the latter.when a person becomes hyperdesperate for power and fame ,he can do anything to gratify his selfish ego.he is prepared to kill or do anything if that means getting what his selfish and morally bankrupt ego desires . please lets endeavor to control our egos;else, when our craving for power wealth and fame becomes malignant ;we bound to regret the cataclysmic consequences that would come with it.good morning and enjoy your day!! ************ Dawud Zakaria kishki !

ASALAMU ALAIKUM WARAHMATULLAH WABARKATU Rabbana zalamnaa anfusanaa Fa illam tagfirlanaa watarhamnaa lanakuunanna minal khaasiriin Rabbish rahli sadrii Wayassirlee amree waqdud ukhdatan minlisaani yafqahuu quoli What Is the first thing on your mind in the morning and the last thing on your mind at night ? What do you spend your whole day thinking about even in salaah .... What scares you soo much you can't eat ? Can't sleep? What makes you most angry in life What is your greatest FEAR in life, you break down at the thought of it ...your heart tremble at the thought of losing it ..you even begin to sweat out of fear of losing it. When we ask ourselves all these questions in life ...we realise that one thing that we soo much attached to is our WORLDLY DESIRES ...it has become our CENTRE OF EXISTENCE....which should just not be the case. We have chosen to love the the gift over the giver . We have chosen to depend on the creation rather than the c