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_*HUSBAND SCARCITY...*_ _*(By Maryam Habu Shinga).*_ _This may not be the best time for me to write on this because of misinterpretations, but I can no longer resist the push. "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern._ _Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home._ _Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see a

You can die at anytime but  "living needs courage". You have been maltreated ridiculed, misunderstood,disappointed, your name is synonymous to tears and sadness. What we call a smile sounds like the word occasional to your hearing. Where did you leave your living courage, search your heart, find it,so that you can  continue living, so far as you live , you need your "C-word". Self believe is a foreign word in your dictionary "I am not capable" keeps echoing in your mind. YES! I don't believe in the greatness of a selected species or generation, I believe in the justness of the creator of these generations and Species and so should you. What you need now is your "C-word", the courage to bring out the greatness in you, the courage to show gratitude to your maker, the courage to be courageous. Where did you leave your living courage, search your heart, find it,so that you can  continue living, so far as you live , you need your "C-wor