THIS PRE-WEDDING PHOTOSHOOT IS GOING OUT OF HAND

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THIS PRE-WEDDING SHOOT IS GOING OUT OF CONTROL

After taking off the hijab in the name of this pre-wedding photoshoot, now they are taking off the Abaaya itself leaving vest and underwear you can call it night wear, subhaanallah.

As far as I knew, the night gown was to be use to make our husbands go crazy in the room and not make the world cast an evil eye on our holiness.

How do you seek for Allah's blessings in a marriage you stripped naked before starting. Pre-wedding? my dear brother , if she can start wearing the night gown before the whole world and you still take her in, swallow your tears when her terror starts after marriage.

We keep shouting let's make the zongo better, let's make ourselves better but its so difficult for us to fight our ownsleves.

I am not holy Mary and I don't know how bad I will become in future, but we pray that Allah makes us better and not worse, may Allah rather take our lives than let us go astray.

If you have already done it, just the click of a bottom can delete them all, and if you thinking of trying it, I urge you to tap into your conscience and make a better decision.

Nuhu Alimatu Sadia
Ummuabuuha.blogspot.com
Ummi.ug@gmail.com

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